The post in which you think I am going to complain but I really am not.

The last week of March I came home to find a paper shoved into my front door.  Normally these papers are ads for local food joints, ads for local contractors, chemlawn coupons, or various other things.  They are never important letters from the city.  Letters telling you that they are putting temporary rubber water pipes in your yard and turning off your water from 8:30 am until 4:30 pm during the day to accommodate the work being done and also to accommodate the vast majority of the people in the neighborhood.  Which I totally read as “Housewives & work at home folk be damned”, but hubby says that I read too much into things. 
Let me just give you a visual of my driveway & treelawn right now. 
the state of my front yard
On this letter it stated that if you had any problems with the rubber ramps-like driving over them-to please contact the city engineer’s office and they would try to make alternate arrangements.  With each day that we have had to drive my hubby’s small gas sipping car over these rubber ramps I have become more and more fearful of my hubby’s under carriage as it doesn’t sound well at all when it hits those ramps.  
So, I call.  I reach the switchboard, although I have no idea its the switchboard, mostly because it was so quiet, and she was very polite. (note-I am not saying that switchboard operators are unpolite) I explain the situation and she struggles for words to say. 
She finally tells me, “No one is here yet, they won’t be here until after 8. Why don’t you just call the independent contractor. I am sure you will get somewhere faster with them. If you get no where with the contractor, I guess I will put you through to the engineers.”
I took the phone number down, which by the way isn’t even in my area code.  Instead of calling, I re-read the letter.  They also provided an email address for the city engineer’s office.  (At this point I would like to add that one of my very best friends from high school’s father is the head of our city engineering dept.) 
I typed out a very nice email explaining the situation and my conversation with said switchboard operator. I wrote that if they would still like me to contact the contractor I would happily do so, but I didn’t want to do anything that they weren’t aware of.  
Notice how it doesn’t say that I name dropped. I thought about it, but decided against it. 
I kept checking my email to see if they got back to me. nothing.
About 30 min after I sent the email one of the city engineers was knocking at my front door.  Along with apologizing, looking at my hubby’s car and the size of our rubber ramp, and apologizing some more with the promise that they would make the ramp more manageable for us by the end of the work day today, he told me that my friend’s father had said hello.  He must have told me that 3 times.  Then he handed me his business card and told me that if I had any other problems to please contact him directly on his personal line.  
Not 5 minutes after he left, my friend’s father called.  He wanted to make sure the situation was resolved to my liking and we caught up for a few moments.  
I would like to think that this happens to everyone, that you don’t have to know ‘someone’ to get through the city’s bureaucratic red tape. But sadly, I am sure it isn’t.  So I guess in this instance, I am happy to have known someone on the inside & I won’t be fearful for hubby’s bumper anymore.

On a side note-I will be Marching for Maddie in Sandusky, Ohio on May 9, 2009.
If you would like to join our team or you would like to donate I would be so happy! 
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Wordless Wednesday-The ‘I do’ edition

On your wedding Day
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Celebrating the life of Maddie

Thinking of Heather & Mike today. Wearing purple, although it is so cold here at the island that you can’t tell. Since I am continually wearing my jacket. We were going to have a balloon release but with the rain they would end up in the lake. Hoping it is nicer tomorrow so I can do one.

I will be away as the internet connection I have is spotty at best. Many hugs to you all & I will see you this weekend.

 All taken with a Canon Rebel XSI

Haiku Friday-the cherish edition

Even though she’s sick
I have been giving her squeezes
Too many of my hugs.
Most of the time when
they are sick I avoid them.
Comfort from a far
No longer worried.
Not afraid to catch this bug.
Cherishing my girls.
The cost for Maddie’s funeral are very high. If you can please support Heather & Mike because in times like this you shouldn’t have to worry about how you are going to pay for it. So click on the “For Maddie” button at the top of the side bar —-> to go to their paypal site. Purple shirts have also designed and if you would like to order them you can.  All proceeds will go to Heather & Mike Spohr to spend as they see fit.  

I have no words

This morning my heart is breaking for a family thousands of miles away. A woman that I briefly met just a few months ago-have gotten to know better on the internet-and a little girl that I will never get to meet on this side of heaven. 
If you are able please donate to the March of Dimes in her name. Madeline Alice Spohr. Just click on the widget in my sidebar. Please help the research that would make it possible for another family wouldn’t have to go through this pain & heartbreak like the Spohrs are going through right now. Let’s help Madeline’s life make a huge impact, just not on our hearts with her beautiful smile-but with life saving research. 

Now if you excuse me I have to figure out how I am going to break the news to The Chicken that her little elf baby has gotten her angel wings. 
Edited to add that because of the huge amount of traffic going to Heather’s blog it is currently unavailable.  You can donate with the widget on the left or go directly to her page here 

Top Ten Reasons Why I Want to Take a Mulligan Today

Yes, a do over-I need one-but sadly I think that most of these things would just happen again on the “new Tuesday” So I should count my blessings that this Crappy Tuesday is almost over. 

1. There is snow on the ground and its April-which in itself isn’t too bad, but given it was near 70 last week-is totally unacceptable.
2. My hubby’s back is all out of whack and he had to call into work today-which is a big pain because they don’t like it when the techs call off. 
3. The Chicken woke up with a fever of 102.5-she was miserable all day.  Thankfully I just took her temp and it is back to normal.
4. Did I mention all that snow?
5. I have the cold of epic proportions that I got from Giggles.  That child never shares anything but, this she gives me this. 
6. I have coughed so hard so many times that I regret not doing more kegals while expecting. 
7. I didn’t get any laundry done & believe me we need it.
8. I whacked my head while walking around under some duct work in my 3″ boots, my head is still hurting.
9. Because of said whack there is a lump-which I am sure to whack again tomorrow.
10. All of the above happened and I am much crabbier than I want to be. If I could do it over I am sure I would be thankful for things like my family, friends, home, God, etc….
If you want to see other’s Top Ten list (I am sure they are much more upbeat than mine) go on over to Amanda’s place & check them out!

Helping bearded ladies one post at a time…

Okay, so here’s the thing. I am just going to come clean with it because I am sure that if you got close enough to me you would realize it anyways. So *deep breath* I, Domestic Extraordinaire, have a facial hair problem. Not just a stray hair here, stray hair there kind of thing. The kind that, if on a teenage boy, would make him run to all of his friends and say “Check out my facial hair, yo!” And those boys would be “That is awesome, I am so jealous!”

Okay so I don’t really speak teeangeresque at all well.  I am sure that when if teenage boys see my facial hair they are seriously grossed out.  I know that I am disgusted each and every morning I look in the mirror and see a sea of hairs that weren’t there the day before. 

I have always struggled with plentiful amounts of dark hair.  If my eyebrows were left to their own devices I would have a single brow.  That fine, downy hair that covers all parts of everyone’s bodies….well, mine is black.  I remember in 7th grade when my “boyfriend” Billy came over to my house to bring me a mixed tape-he stated in a low tone, “Um, Heather, you have a mustache” (Although at the time I totally thought I had a kool-aid mustache, but that is a story for another time) And let’s just say that when my mother wouldn’t let me shave until I was 12-I died a bit inside each summer.
I remember when Giggles was about 7 months old and I realized that I had 7 very long black chin hairs. I freaked and pulled into the first store I saw, Albertsons, and bought a pair of tweezers to rip those bad boys out. 
Oh, how I long for the day of those seven stray hairs.  
I tweeze, I wax, I have bleached.  And those disappearing hair cremes-yes even those have been slathered on my face in hopes of getting rid of these stubborn hairs.  My face is silky smooth for about an hour and then it is like I never did a thing.  
Maybe I am totally self conscious.  Possibly no one notices.  But, I seriously doubt it.  
Many women complain about acne that plaques them well into their 30′s.  While I don’t claim to know your pain-but sometimes I wish that acne was my case.  Its normal for women to have zits-the ability to grow more facial hair than your husband? Not so much.
In fact, after I finish writing this post I will be heading upstairs to liberate some more hair.  Not the way that I enjoy spending my Sunday evenings.  
So next time you want to visit the bearded lady at the fair-think of me & send those $5 my way, yo.  I will save up for those laser treatments. 

Wordless Wednesday- A girl and her mother

Me and My Mom on Her Birthday
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