So I am officially the Worst Mom Ever

This wrist thing is really starting to bother me.  

First I am in constant pain.  
Second I am missing meeting up with some awesome ladies in DC next week because of this stupid wrist and an Orthopedic appt for it.  I don’t know what the crap we are going to talk about at the appointment because I don’t start Occupational Therapy until the 8th.  So, I will drive the 20 miles to Parma so they can say “Yup, looks like your wrist is still there, come back in 2 weeks.”  Really glad my appointment isn’t like right now, because I may or may not come unhinged on that poor PA I have been dealing with.  (PA=Physician’s Assistant, geez, I am not that bad yet) 
 Third, it is getting to the girls.  They hate picking up the slack around here.  Granted most of the slack belongs to them, but they hate it.  I can’t say I blame them in this department.  But not listening to me unless I am yelling (which I hate being the yeller)  or just totally ignoring me and doing whatever they want anyways, whining, or giving me dirty looks and/or nasty comments……well.  I may have just come unhinged with them a few minutes ago.  
I know that I am PMS’ing right now, so that with the whole pain in the wrist thing, two very hormonal girls who happen to be on the same schedule with PMS’ing as I am and a hubby who has been gone 80 hours this week.  Well, when he gets home I am just going to bed.  But he is gone so much that I doubt I will be awake when he gets here.  
I hate being that whiney blog, but here I am.  I am writing about life and right now it seems to be a bit harder.  I promise to not whine tomorrow.  Hopefully  I will be celebrating my wins for the BFL, or at least celebrating Cleveland’s win.  But we shall see.  
I am going to end this on a happy note.  Go and Wish Redneck Mommy a Happy Birthday, she will probably like that!! 
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Comments

  1. Diane says:

    It’s OK to whine and vent. We all go through it, it will pass. I hope your wrist feels better.

  2. Insta-mom says:

    I can’t go to DC either. Let’s have a pity party together.

  3. Lilacspecs says:

    It’s fine to say what you’re feeling. I’d be frustrated too. And pain can take a toll when it’s there constantly.

  4. kristina says:

    Oh, it sounds like you deserve to whine!!

    But, personally, it sounds like your husband deserves a big whine, too… with THREE females on the same hormonal schedule? The poor man!!!

  5. Cookie says:

    You are not whining. You are telling us what is going on in your life. It’s easier to do it here than to email all of us, ya know.

    Should I come over and shake your daughters? While I do not currently have the PMS, I am a world class bitch and don’t have a problem explaining to them just how lucky they are and how bratty they are for resenting your not doing every little thing for them.

    Doing your own laundry, keeping your room clean and helping out around the house is not only normal, but good for them. Whether they like it or not. What will they do when they are on their own? Because you will not be doing their laundry in ten years.

    /tough love Cookie

  6. mercysmama says:

    You’re not the worst mom ever. You’re doing the best you can- and that happens to be an awesome job! It’s totally ok to be stressed/inpain/ exhausted/annoyed/at-the-end-of-your-rope.
    It’s gonna get better……. hang on and get some chocolate :) Praying for you!